Why do victims stay in abusive relationships? For many, it’s not a lack of strength or awareness—it’s survival. From financial dependence and faith-based guilt to trauma bonds and ADHD-driven dopamine cycles, the reasons are complex and deeply human. In this honest reflection, a former ordained priest shares her personal story of faith, fear, and ultimately, freedom.

After my split, my ex left me without money or clothes, filing false claims and cutting me off from support. Amid fear, illness, and loss, I found guidance through a chaplain, therapy, and spiritual practices. Using a simple deck of cards, I connected with my higher self and discovered hope, healing, and Divine protection. This journey taught me that even in the darkest times, we are deeply loved and guided.