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Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is much broader than physical abuse, despite the fact that most law enforcement and the court systems neglect to acknowledge the myriad ways abusers can impact their victims. These articles will describe some of the lesser understood forms of domestic violence.


Understanding the Different Types of Narcissism in Relationships and How to Safeguard Yourself
Narcissism can deeply impact relationships, leaving partners feeling confused, drained, or trapped. This post explains the main types of narcissism—grandiose, covert, and malignant—how to recognize warning signs in a partner, and where to find trusted support. Learn how to protect your emotional well-being, set boundaries, and take steps toward healing and healthier relationships.
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1 day ago3 min read


Understanding the Traits of Narcissistic Abuse and Coercive Control: Signs, Traits, and How to Get Help
Narcissistic abuse and coercive control can leave victims feeling trapped, powerless, and isolated. This post explores common traits of those affected, warning signs of controlling relationships, and practical steps for seeking safety and support. Find trusted resources in the U.S. and abroad and learn how to begin healing, rebuilding confidence, and reclaiming your life.
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1 day ago3 min read


Understanding Intimate Partner Violence: Signs, Real-Life Examples, and Resources for Help
Intimate partner violence (IPV) affects millions but often goes unrecognized. This post explains what IPV is, shares real-life examples to help identify abuse, and provides trusted resources for support. Learn the warning signs, reflect on your own experiences, and discover where to turn for help, safety, and healing—for yourself or someone you care about.
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1 day ago4 min read


Healing After Abuse: Learning to Trust, Love, and Live Again
After surviving abuse, it’s natural to feel wary of love and connection. Healing after trauma means learning to trust yourself and others again. This reflection explores the challenges of rebuilding relationships, recognizing hypervigilance, and finding courage to open your heart once more. Because your story isn’t over—you are meant to love and be loved again.
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Oct 8, 20254 min read


The Hidden Health Effects of Trauma and Abuse: How Freedom Heals the Body and Mind
Trauma doesn’t just hurt the heart — it changes the body. In this powerful story of survival and healing, I share how leaving an abusive relationship transformed my physical health. From chronic inflammation and fatigue to full-body renewal, this journey reveals how the body holds trauma — and how true healing begins once you’re free.
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Oct 7, 20253 min read


Why Victims Stay in Abusive Relationships: Faith, Finances, and Trauma Bonds
Why do victims stay in abusive relationships? For many, it’s not a lack of strength or awareness—it’s survival. From financial dependence and faith-based guilt to trauma bonds and ADHD-driven dopamine cycles, the reasons are complex and deeply human. In this honest reflection, a former ordained priest shares her personal story of faith, fear, and ultimately, freedom.
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Oct 6, 20255 min read


Parental Alienation Abuse: A Mother’s Story of Loss, Hope, and Healing
Parental alienation is a devastating form of abuse that leaves targeted parents grieving children who are still alive but cut off by manipulation. In this raw account, one mother shares how her ex used parental alienation to sever her bond with her kids, the heartbreaking fallout, and why awareness and legal reform are urgently needed.
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Oct 2, 20255 min read


Coercive Control and Consent in Intimate Relationships: Why Sex Is Never Owed
No one is ever owed sex in a relationship. Consent must be freely given each time, without guilt, pressure, or coercion. Coercive control—whether through whining, guilting, or religious justification—is a form of abuse, even in long-term or marital relationships. This post explores how silence around sex enables abuse and why we must hold firm boundaries to protect victims and demand accountability.
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Oct 1, 20253 min read


Fighting a Domestic Violence Charge as a Victim
I fought against an unfair DV charge after defending myself from abuse. Instead of justice, I faced years of stigma, court requirements, and lost opportunities—while my abuser walked free. My story exposes how the system often fails victims by punishing survival instead of protecting them.
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Sep 30, 20253 min read


Lilith in Your Natal Chart — Meaning, Houses & Shadow Power
Lilith in your natal chart reveals where you break free from control, channel righteous anger, and reclaim your shadow power. Her placement shows the house where you resist oppression and embrace raw divine feminine energy. Calling on Lilith can help transform pain, abuse, and injustice into strength, courage, and empowerment on your spiritual journey.
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Sep 27, 20253 min read


Recognizing Subtle Signs of Emotional & Psychological Abuse — Gaslighting, Stonewalling & Silent Rage
After 20 years in a toxic marriage, I learned to recognize subtle emotional abuse tactics like gaslighting, stonewalling, and silent rage. These covert behaviors can erode confidence and self-worth. My story aims to help others spot these signs early, understand covert narcissism, and start healing from invisible wounds.
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Sep 26, 20254 min read


What Is a Karmic Relationship? Meaning, Signs, and How It Differs from Twin Flames
What is a karmic relationship, and how is it different from a twin flame connection? Both can feel intense, emotional, and even toxic—but only one sparks mutual healing and spiritual growth. Karmic ties often arise to help you face deep wounds and generational trauma, serving as catalysts for transformation. Learn how to spot the signs, embrace the lessons, and move toward healing without accepting abuse.
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Sep 25, 20252 min read


I am a domestic violence survivor...
After surviving domestic abuse and navigating a legal system that often mislabels victims, I began my road to manifestation with a course through DVORA. Inspired by Vashti from the Purim story, I was inspired to create The VASHTI Project to support survivors with trauma-informed therapy, holistic healing, advocacy, and spiritual guidance. This project aims to help victim-defendants rebuild their lives, find empowerment, and access resources they need to thrive.
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Sep 15, 20254 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: How I Found Safety, Healing & Spiritual Guidance
After my split, my ex left me without money or clothes, filing false claims and cutting me off from support. Amid fear, illness, and loss, I found guidance through a chaplain, therapy, and spiritual practices. Using a simple deck of cards, I connected with my higher self and discovered hope, healing, and Divine protection. This journey taught me that even in the darkest times, we are deeply loved and guided.
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Sep 14, 20255 min read


From Episcopal Priest to High Priestess...my domestic violence personal story...
One slap changed everything. After years of narcissistic abuse, I snapped—and that night ended in handcuffs, jail, and a fight to reclaim my life. What felt like the end became the beginning: a painful unraveling that sparked my deepest spiritual awakening.
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Aug 29, 20253 min read
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